Many of us have always assumed that we would meet our soulmates, get married, and have children all while we conquered the world in our respective careers. Oh how we were fooled! The fact is - is that was never the story of our grandmothers, sort of the story of our mothers, and definitely the story of many of us, just not most of us.

If you are single — you probably know that you are not alone, but you may not care about that. With all the media attention towards the fact that our biological clocks are ticking - we are running scared. How are we going to ever have the children we want if we don’t meet the man? I mean they are necessary:)

So this is my advice. There is no shame or desperation in knowing what you want out of life. Admitting that you want a relationship is fine. So what do you normally do when there is something you want? You go out there and get it right? Well, that’s what you have to do in order to meet the next Mr. Right.

First, don’t let your fear of being alone forever overwhelm you. No matter what your age - it’s never too late for love. Never. So the first bit of business is to change your attitude about what the future holds.

Think of all the places you have been to in the past month. If they mainly consist of going to work and possibly the supermarket, and then home - then we’ve got a problem! You must expand your pool of opportunity. Mr. Right is not going to knock on your front door and invite himself in.

Put the word out. Meeting a man through someone you know is always great because you have a point of reference. You have at least one person to check out his background and give you a full report on the last girlfriend:)

Stay positive. When you go out, you can’t go out expecting the worse - it will show all over your face and through your body language. Remember that most communication is non-verbal. Arms crossed? Head down? You are unapproachable.

Get a hobby. Find something else to do while you are waiting for Prince Charming. It will help you grow and get your mind off of things. Plus, you are much more appealing to someone if you have outside interests.

Ditch your buddies. You don’t have to take this absolutely literally, but it has been proven that a woman who goes out alone or with one friend has a much easier time meeting someone then a woman who has a posse!

There are worse things than being single. Keep things in perspective. Life is great. Don’t let your life slip you by because you were overly concerned with things that really don’t matter that much in the grand scheme of things.

If you are just doing all of this to have a baby and don’t really care about a relationship - then adopt! There are oodles of babies and children out here that need parents who want them.