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The Double Standard of Cheating

Winston & Peggy Bennett

ESPN recently profiled Winston Bennett a former basketball protégé and ex -NBA player who played for the Cavaliers. (the video can be seen below)

In the interview, Winston talks about his sexual addiction. At the height of his addiction, he was sleeping with 4 different women per day, 90 different women per month and he said he rarely used protection.

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Guest Blog // Let it Burn- By Lady Complex

Two years had passed since we had the huge fight that ended the relationship. Well, according to me that's what ended it, not the fact that he was seeing someone else. We would've made it further if I didn't catch him in the bed with who is now his baby's mother on a cold Christmas Day. It seems to have been a shorter than two years due to the fact that we were still sleeping with each other. Our physical compatibility and attraction was still alive, despite that we both were in other relationships. I lost count of the text messages and the random "before he/she comes home" phone calls, which often ended in a couple minutes of phone sex.

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Dear Empress- Help Me Choose Between 2 Men

I need some help in deciding between two men, help!

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Searching For My Mr.

Here we go again. Another video telling us what we kind of already know. It hard for a Black Woman to find the right Black Man and ultimately get MARRIED.

Thoughts? Are we too picky or Do we deserve to be picky? For all of you out there in a relationship, are you with your Mr. Right or settling because you don't think you will be able to find another suitable mate?

thx to @youngNblackNYC for the link

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Single Valentine

Single Valentine? I guess that is what I would be considered. I’m not in a loving relationship or dating “that guy”. I’m basically living in a world where love isn’t hard to come by, so they say. I’m surrounded by relationships. The majority of my friends (5 out of 7) have boyfriends they have been with for years. One of my girlfiends from college is even engaged. So I figure finding a loving guy should be as easy as buying Wonder bread from the corner store, but for me it hasn’t been as such.