MIND
Healing Is Boring. That’s Why You Keep Thinking You’re Doing It Wrong
No one tells you that healing is deeply unglamorous. There are no fireworks, no breakthrough moments, no applause. Just small, almost invisible decisions made…
Do You Suffer? You’re a Woman. That’s Normal
That’s what we’ve been told for centuries. Not in a single sentence and rarely outright. More often between the lines, in doctors’ surgeries, in…
Why Easy Money Makes Me Nervous
Why do money that doesn’t hurt feel like a suspicious promotion? Who taught me that without effort they aren’t “honest”? And why do I…
Valentine’s Day: Sponsored by Bare Minimum Men
Every year, it’s the same story. The internet floods with roses, dinners, candles and captions saying, “I don’t need anything more, it’s the gesture…
The Black Woman Who Beat White Men at Their Own Game
Madame C.J. Walker: how she became a millionaire and why we probably couldn’t handle it. Everyone wants her future. No one wants her past.Born…
The Divorce Effect: Confetti, Court Papers and a New Face in the Mirror
TikTok calls it the “divorce effect”. I don’t. What I see is a pattern of women returning to themselves after years of being emotionally…
Mentally Exhausted? Perfect. That’s Where Clarity Begins
You are tired in a way that sleep cannot reach. It is the kind of tired that strips away the mask you keep wearing…
Hurt Enough? Good. Now Weaponise It
Healing is not aesthetic. It is labour, exhaustion, resistance and honesty. It is the version of you sitting on the floor whispering that you…
Overthinking Again? Aim It. Don’t Drown in It
Your thoughts move fast because your mind notices everything. You read between lines other people never see. You feel shifts they overlook. What you…
