Is it useful?
Is it interesting?
Is there money involved?
Is it a story that refuses to die quietly?
If yes, proceed.
If not, the silence between us is probably doing important work.
LETTERS
For private stories, confessions, emotional evidence, and things you are tired of carrying politely.
MONEY, TASTE & OTHER ARRANGEMENTS
For collaborations, partnerships, sponsored work, and brands with a point of view, a budget, and enough self-awareness not to call women a “target demographic” like this is a hostage situation.
THE UNCLASSIFIED PILE
For press, technical problems, access issues, and everything else that insists on existing.
Everything is read.
Some messages get an answer.
Some get a raised eyebrow and a peaceful silence.